Joshua Graves

I'm a design leader with 20 years experience, author of We Need to Talk, visual artist, and curious human. This is a (fairly expansive) wiki that encompasses my personal and professional life. Welcome.

About My Book

We Need to Talk is a tactical, non-prescriptive guide to navigating and surviving hard conversations at work. It's built around non-violent communication and psychological safety. It offers a research-backed, battle-tested, flexible toolkit that you can tailor to your situation without losing your authenticity. Here are a few situations this book covers:

  • Dealing with lying and gaslighting
  • Giving feedback to your boss
  • Resolving conflicts on remote teams
  • Navigating cultural differences effectively and respectfully
  • Responding when you don't have time to prepare

Current Projects

My most recent efforts. See my Now page for more.

We Need to Talk
My book on how to have hard conversations for people who hate having them.
The Joshuary
A shop filled with curious goods and wonderful things: prints, objects, and other spooky-inspired items you won’t find anywhere else.
The Nevermore
A digital collection of Edgar Allan Poe’s works with a focus on a beautiful reading experience.

Latest Additions

Here's what I've updated most recently.

Been A Long Road Shirt
Screenprinted shirt for Lord Huron fans.
DeepCast
A deep-diving AI-powered podcast tool that helps listeners explore with their favorite podcasts.
Listening Is A Design Tool
Slowing down is how you solve the thorniest issues.
Lord Huron at Benny Boy Brewing
Screenprinted ouija board-inspired shirt.

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