Hello there.

I'm Joshua, author of We Need to Talk, founder of Lost Horse, visual artist, and curious human. This is a (fairly expansive) wiki that encompasses my personal and professional life. Welcome.

We Need to Talk is out now! It's a practical, non-prescriptive guide to navigating and surviving hard conversations at work. Forward by Karen Catlin.

I spent years researching the psychology and neuroscience behind conflict and consulting with experts to create a flexible toolkit that you can tailor to your situation. A few situations this book covers:

  • Dealing with lying and gaslighting
  • Giving feedback to your boss without fear
  • Resolving conflicts on remote teams
  • Navigating cultural differences effectively and respectfully
  • Responding when you don't have time to prepare


Current Projects

My most recent efforts. See my Now page for more.

We Need to Talk
The new book on having hard conversations. Out April 15, 2025 via Rosenfeld Media.
Lost Horse Labs
I founded a human-centered design agency that builds incredible software and brands.
The Joshuary
A shop filled with curious goods and wonderful things: prints, objects, and other spooky-inspired items you won’t find anywhere else.
The Nevermore
A digital collection of Edgar Allan Poe’s works with a focus on a beautiful reading experience.

Latest Additions

Here’s what I’ve updated most recently.

Charlie
World's Best Dog
We Need to Talk Alt Art
Pulpy, Goosebumps-inspired art for my upcoming book.
A Brief History & Ethos of the Digital Garden
How this got started, including the idea of memexes.
Bi-Directional Links
A hallmark of digital gardens. Better than wikis.

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